Mediation

Resolve offers private mediation services for both civil and family matters. Mediation typically offers a faster, more cost-effective and less adversarial way to resolve disputes when compared to litigation. It also offers the opportunity for creative solutions to the dispute.

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Why my interest in mediation?

I have some personal experience with the conflicts that can emerge when an inheritance is on the horizon – in both my father’s generation and in my own. I’ve seen it done really well and I’ve seen it done very poorly – I’ve witnessed the damage that can happen to family relationships when it’s done poorly, when there’s a lack of clarity regarding a person’s estate and their wishes, and how a lack of transparency can lead to family conflict. I’m committed to helping other families avoid these conflicts through assisting with estate planning or resolving the conflicts that arrive before or after a loved one’s passing. 

Benefits of mediation

  • Hiring a private mediator to help resolve conflicts offers much greater flexibility in creating solutions than litigation and is much more likely to help preserve relationships.
  • Conflicts involving family – such as estate and probate issues – or family business disputes greatly benefit from a professional that works to both help resolve the dispute as well as maintain relationships.
  • A private mediator provides a neutral setting where everyone can openly communicate their concerns and needs, which helps to foster better understanding, potentially leading to more creative solutions.
  • Unlike litigation, which can be destructive and adversarial, mediation focuses on finding common ground.
  • Mediation is also usually more affordable than litigation, as it involves fewer formal procedures, legal representation, and court fees.
  • The process is also usually faster than litigation. If the confidential process of mediation doesn’t result in resolution, there is still the option of taking the matter to a judge for a decision.
  • Because people are actively involved in the mediation process, they tend to be more satisfied with the outcome of a court-imposed decision.
  • In addition to all of the other benefits, research shows that compliance with agreements reached through mediation is generally higher than that achieved through court orders.

Process: Most mediations follow a similar process – there’s a call to the mediator to ask questions about mediation and a decision of whether to move forward. If the decision is made to move forward, there’s information gathering and an initial joint session to review the issues and the process, and the signing of an agreement to mediate. I then meet with each “side” separately to understand the issue and conflicts, and then we meet jointly to develop solutions. The process ends with a settlement agreement or an end to the mediation if no settlement is reached.

Common Issues in Adult Family Mediation
  • Co-ownership of property
  • Independence and care issues for elder family member
  • Financial management and decision making
  • Interpersonal difficulties
  • Legal disputes
Common issues in Estate and Probate Mediation
  • Inheritance disputes
  • Disputes with the trustee or executor
  • Distribution of property
  • Capacity of the person who has passed away
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